Wednesday, August 27, 2014

Ice Bucket Challenge

The Ice Bucket Challenge craze has reached the Philippines. While I believe in the cause and I admire the way the Challenge has become viral to benefit the ALS research, I also enjoy the hilarious Ice Bucket Fails. here are some:


Hold on buddy!

Surprise & horses? Don't go well together


Warning adult language

For more videos go check out the Ice Bucket Challenge ALS channel on Youtube. 

And don't forget to visit http://alsa.org 





Of smallest of minds

Recently I caught the beef of one guy when I commented on a friend’s rant using a quote from Habeeb Akande: “People with the smallest minds often have the biggest mouths”. I realized afterwards, I broke one of the rules I set forth for myself while navigating social media, censure yourself. In a world of differing cultures, you just don’t know how the other person will react. 

When I thought about it in hindsight, It became apparent to me that the quote is something I live by when navigating my relationships, and rather unconsciously. Rationalize things before you say what’s on your mind, never judge a person’s actions because you don’t know what caused them in the first place, never dry your dirty laundry in public. For if I cannot understand and able to surmount my prejudices I will have succumbed to having the smallest of minds. When not minding what I say and not understanding/accepting people’s cultures, opinions, biases, I tend to say things that hurt people, I tend to disregard other people’s opinions and I often fail to recognize each person’s uniqueness and biases.

I’m not justifying the quote in the context of the post. Was I wrong in posting that? After all, I didn’t know the background. Maybe so, but in retrospect, it served as a reminder, to me, hopefully to my friend, to the guy, that what good would talking trash be if the return is feeling empty, reaping the wrath and a shallow and empty victory over the other person.